His mom predeceased him. She coos, "I know you can get to it," with the heat of a matriarch on this, the mother of boogie. We can't just know or guess what we or other people want or will need, like or dislike, are or are not ok with: we want to communicate people issues and have them communicated to us. It can come to feel like becoming asked what you want to consume at a cafe with no getting a menu to even know your alternatives.