Once you decide to meet, pick a place like a coffee shop or an activity like taking a walk where you both of you can come to meet each other. Most men do not relish the concept of any kind of shopping much less holiday shopping which carries with it additional stress. Check it out from 11-5pm everyday except Wednesday when it is closed. To become a FreeLoader there is a registration fee of $25.00, and there is a monthly fee of $9.95.